gaining clarity

Gaining clarity

Lifting the veil.

"Who are you if everything is taken away from you?"
A question I often ask my clients.
Now a lot is taken away from us - or freedom to go wherever we want, our daily routines, our so-called normal behavior.

So who are you in this crisis?
What do you represent?
What do you stand for?
What are you passing on? Fear or LOVE?
What do you give to your loved ones, to the people around you, to strangers you encounter - may it be in a store or online?
And under the same perspective, you can ask these questions

the people "in charge" - the governments, the CEOs,
the billionaires (I recalled the flood of donations when
Notre Dame was burning).

Gaining clarity about yourself.
Now is a great time to do so.
Who am I?
What is really important to me?
Gaining clarity about the people around you?
Who are your true friends? Who is really there for you?
And there might appear people you never ever would have thought that they would support you and others might disappear - some of them you called friends for a long time.

"The proof is in the pudding."
Gaining clarity, clearing up your space inside and outside.
New possibilities, new connections will emerge out of this process.
It's time to shed the old that no longer serves us - even that means to give up parts of who we thought we were...
I know that can be very scary and I hereby wanna encourage you to leave scarcity and enter the realm of LOVE and

start living a life that is worth living.

You have it in your own hands.
YOU decide which way to go.
May you gain clarity.


May you all be blessed, happy and healthy.

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a few days ago

Find your own truth

Find your own truth...

...and shape the future you wanna live in

There is no such thing as ONE truth
Everything is personal.
It's all about personal perspective which is of course influenced

by our experiences, the culture we have been raised in, religion, traditions, etc, etc.
Each and every one of us sees the world through their own lens, through their own filter.

Same as we can't see the full spectrum of the light,

we will never be able to see the full spectrum of an incidence.
It's all about perspective.
Look around...there is so much fighting going on about right or wrong. I don't wanna deepen this topic here and now.
I wanna remind you that even there is no such thing as THE ONE truth. You are free to choose and find your own truth.

How do I find my own truth? - you now may ask.
Here some "guidelines" I found to be very helpful for myself as well for people who asked me for support:

* Acknowledge that there is no such thing as ONE truth.
   Respect different opinions.

   That does not mean that you have to like them. 
   The freedom we want for ourselves we have to grant others as well.

* "What if?" - I love to play the "what-if game".

    What if my perspective of my current situation wouldn't be true?
     There are many variations of this game. Just explore if you like.

*  And of course "Follow Your Heart"!

    Our hearts exactly know what is true for us, what is in our best
    interest. That's inherent! Unfortunately, we are trained - often from
    an early age on - to overwrite the message of our heart, of our
    intuition, our gut feeling with our logical mind.
    So we are disconnected from our most valid guidance.

And here comes in the chance of the crisis.
People are forced to go within, to question, to realign.
If you take the chance and don't escape into fear, blaming, being victim, distractions, you will come out of any crisis renewed and empowered.
Now, is the time to shape the future you wanna live in!


May you all be blessed, happy and healthy.

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a few days ago

Follow your HEART

Listen to your HEART.

Your HEART will tell you the truth.

Listen to your heart.
Go inside.
There is where your true power lies - within!
This also includes responsibility.
The responsibility to form your own opinion
and not to blindly follow the masses -
It's an awesome exercise for your so-called normal daily life.

Right now so many people are fighting about right or wrong -

up to defame someone who has the courage to question
the mainstream media,
the "facts" who are presented in the mainstream media.

Your heart knows what's true and what's a lie-
your heart knows when someone really wants to support,

to empower you and when someone - out of whatever reason -
wants to manipulate you.

It may need courage but it will set you free.
We are born free but then the system kicks in and
starts to form you, to deprive you of who you truly are.
My heart tells me clearly that it is NOT how life is meant to be.

We are unique. YOU are unique!
Now many people around the world are in forced retreats.
What a chance - isn't it?
To be "forced" to be with yourself.
Now is the chance to turn off the outer distractions,
including the panic, the fear and listen to your heart.
So turn off the news from time to time.
Pause and go within.
I hereby encourage you to be brave, to form your own opinion,

to go on a treasure hunt what your life is really about,
how you truly wanna live, who you truly are.
And yes, some people shy away from this.
Don't wanna look into the mirror of clarity and their own truth.

And that's ok.
No one is forced to do so...again, take responsibility!
Every decision is a decision - even not to decide is a decision.
For those who wanna grasp the chance of this crisis:
Now you can lay the foundation for your future.
YES, there is a chance in every crisis.
Remember you reap what you sow.
What kind of life, what kind of lifestyle - inside and outside -

do you wanna reap?
Now you have the time to make new decisions -
and I see already many people taking this chance.


May you all be blessed, happy and healthy.

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last week

The art of unbecoming

The art of unbecoming

Embracing the unknown.

Who are you?
What are you doing?
These are the most asked questions when people meet for the first time.
And it is the reflection of how much we define ourselves through what we do and who (we think) we are.
Of course, it creates a certain kind of comfort "knowing" who we are,

as well for the people around us.

And it doesn't matter how we live, which profession we have,

which kind of lifestyle we are living, if we are happy or unhappy -
the underlying principle is always the same.
We formed a certain personality and live according to it.
And as longer we live it, we identify more and more with it,
equate personality with who we truly are. 

And here is the trap - equalizing personality with who we truly are.
We are caught inside our habits, inside our personality, inside how the people around us see us.
So we keep on functioning according to what and to how we used to live. And again, this gives us a kind of comfort and security.

"But", you now might say, there are so many people who even radically changed their lives, left everything behind and started something new or took a sabbatical or..or..or.
Let's take a closer look.
If you know these people in person or if you just observe them...

as far as you can see, did they really change or do they repeat the same patterns just on a different playground?

What a lot of people don't include in the equation is the fact that you always take yourself with you - no matter where you go, no matter how much you change your outer life circumstances.
I encountered many people who tried to change over and over again only to find themselves in the same role again and again - even the places and the people and the life circumstances changed.

Changing the outer conditions, circumstances may bring you some relief, yes. In most of the cases it won't last. In most of the cases you'll find yourself repeating the same old patterns o ver and over again.

True change starts from within and often happens silently even without the person itself noticing something.

It's more like walking through fog and mist.

True change starts with being willing to unbecome, to step into the unknown. To be willing to fully surrender to who you truly are without knowing who you truly are.
Saying yes to the journey and not to focus on a certain outcome.

Every focus we can have is based on our experience and on our belief system, so it just creates another version of the old you.
Especially in our so-called Western world with the supervalued rational mind it's a true challenge, I know.

And just to make it clear: this unbecoming is an ongoing process, you are never done, there is no finish line to be crossed.
I always say that I lived so many lives in one life -

sometimes even joking that it is so much easier than this whole complete dying and being reborn cycle - even in certain phases of the process, it feels exactly like dying and being reborn.
And then sometimes people start arguing: stayed in the same professional fields for round about 30 years...and you tell me you changed?
YES...always consider that's not about WHAT we do, it's all about HOW we do it.
And I fully understand that it might be not so obvious for people but nowadays my approach is completely different, because I AM a different person...and I will continue to be on this journey, this unbecoming, surrendering to life, to my higher self, to divine guidance.
And I don't wanna miss this journey, even sometimes it seems to be a lonely path, risking being called crazy, misunderstood or not understood at all.
To me, it is more than worth it.

So unbecoming, leaving behind your old you and start your personal discovery journey - perhaps this is the true meaning of the bible verse
"Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven."

And I know from my heart that heaven is here, here on earth.


May you all be blessed, happy and healthy.

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a few months ago

brave enough

Are you brave enough... find true meaning in life?

​"Of course!"...a lot of people would answer.

So how about if I ask you if you are willing and ready to

leave structures you are accustomed to, you are raised/grown into?
be ready to re-invent yourself over and over again?
embrace uncertainty?
be ready to fully surrender to life?
to give up traditional power structures?
to not give a s**t what other people think about you?
to give up your plans and restart over and over again?
to give up the illusion of true meaning?


So now again...
Are you brave enough to find true meaning in life?


May you all be blessed, happy and healthy.

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a few months ago



is a trap.

​Intellect is a trap we often fall into - and sadly enough it is often used intertwined with intelligence and sophistication.
Intellect and sophistication are constructs while true intelligence is innate.
Intellect and sophistication are considered to be eminently respectable.
We lose sight of the true intelligence - you can also call it natural wisdom which comes from the heart and hereby is directly connected to the universal laws.
No, I am not against intellect and mind. They are wonderful tools that can be used by our innate intelligence and wisdom.
Yes, used by!
A role reversal happened in our culture the servants (intellect and mind) now act as rulers discrediting up to denying the importance of the true ruler (the heart).

Where did this lead us? Look around!
Intellect and mind will never be able to understand the perfect orchestration of our universe because they are plus-minus limited to facts.
Facts are always based on past experiences. These, of course, create a filter through which we see and plan our future. Please consider as well that, as you can see through history, facts can change and can be changed/manipulated.

The same way you will never be able to understand nor to experience the smell and the existence of a rose through defoliating it, you will never ever even get a glimpse of the laws of existence by just using your intellect.

If we have the courage to re-install the natural order of servant and ruler, we will be able to solve the big problems we are facing nowadays together as a community.
Then these problems will turn into opportunities.
Let's co-create and collaborate!


May you all be blessed, happy and healthy.

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a few months ago


How to create healthy companies

and communities.

As in our bodies, everything is based on the principle of harmony 

which naturally per se involves EVERY single part of the whole.
And this principle is overlooked, run over inside most of our what we call civilized structures.

Looking back at what I encountered over the last 3 decades of my professional career, I can say that one of the main issues in our cultures is that people don't live their unique selves, aren't empowered, aren't trusted that they truly have something unique to contribute.

It seems that even there has been so much innovation, humanitarian evolution got stuck at the early age of industrialism where people have been trained and treated to be like robots, just to function.
What I often find inside companies as well as in people who come to me and seek support is that people don't feel seen, trusted and appreciated in what they do, who they truly are and what they have to contribute in their unique way. So they just automatically function - until they crash or leave their workplace...burnout and other diseases are one form of what I mean by "crash".
And it doesn't matter which position they hold - from housekeeper to secretary to top's always the same, can be retraced to the same origin.

I feel, see and experience that is rooted in the - still - mechanistic worldview.
Denying the laws of nature, the wisdom of nature which is co-creation and collaboration based on the principle of everyone is contributing their best and being acknowledged, seen and trusted.
Btw companies who apply these principles already experience organic growth, health and wealth for everyone.
This is how you create sustainability and ignite and empower self-controlling/ self-regulating mechanisms which are the true nature of all living systems.
And it all starts with the individuum. Nothing truly sustainable, no true living synergy can ever be implemented through external control only through empowering the inherent forces  that lay within each and everyone of us.

To be continued.


May you all be blessed, happy and healthy.

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a few months ago

Why so serious

Why so serious...? separates you from life, joy, and LOVE.

​We buy into that seriousness is a sign of being a grown-up -

not realizing that it's the root of many problems and diseases people suffer from throughout the rest of their lives.

In all your seriousness you are trying to control your life, people and circumstances.

Yes TRYING - controlling your life is an illusion...
and now I hear a lot of you you screaming inside - or even outside... "But!!!! - NO!!!! - If I don't... - life is that way - it's getting out of control - I can't just live my life" ...and so on.
Being too serious separates us from who we truly are - separates us from our alignment and hereby from our own inner wisdom and guidance.
And from our inherent control system...hahaha...
Now you think "BUT you just said we can't control our lives, it's an illusion - and now you are talking about our inherent control system.
There is a huge difference between controlling through our mind and following the guidance of our inherent control system.
Our minds are way too limited to control our lives in a healthy way even people try very hard - in all areas of our lives. Which by the way creates a lot of disasters.

In all our seriousness we create the hubris of being superior to creation. Look around...people are trying to control nature, humans and the whole world...not even understanding a tiny little bit the perfect orchestration of our universe, mother earth, our bodies...
up to now no one knows how it happens during our embryonic evolution that the heart starts beating.
There is a greater control mechanism, a much wiser control inside each and every one of us. And if we have the courage to re-align with this inner power and wisdom and have the courage to be guided from within, this is how you can control your life and let a healthy, wealthy and fulfilling life unfold.
So...why so serious? a little music inspiration


May you all be blessed, happy and healthy.

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a few months ago

Cut the strings

Cut the strings...

...and you will live.

We all are puppets on the strings - more or less.
And you may not like it or not wanting to admit it:
Often we even hold the strings in our own hands.

The strings of "How I have to be"
The strings of "I want to be loved and acknowledged"
The strings of "I have to behave in a certain way"
The strings of "Fear and stress"
The strings of "Loss and lost"
The strings of "Running after"
The strings of "Trying hard"
The strings of "Wanting"
The strings of "Searching"
The strings of "Being seen"
The strings of "Complaining and explaining"

The hand who holds the strings can also grasp the scissors... 
It's totally up to you.


May you all be blessed, happy and healthy.

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a few months ago

The Greatest

The greatest...


I am the best.
The greatest.
Number one.

It's true for everyone.
Each and every one of us is a masterpiece.

But who is using these expressions?
People who wanna stand out?
Present themselves as special, better than someone else?

Who feels like doing so?
Think yourself!

To me, everyone is special.
We are all a masterpiece.
Simultaneously in the making constantly, never-ending.

You don't have to tell me that you are special.
I can see it and enjoy it.


May you all be blessed, happy and healthy.

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6 months ago
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