I don’t like excuses

....because they are 99% fake - at least.


Excuse me, Entschuldigung, perdon, pardonnez-moi, scusi,
...some of these expressions that I know from different languages...

"Excuse me"...I don't like it...
Why?
Because usually somehow it means nothing...
Most of the people use it automatically - more as
a protection shield than as a real excuse...
"But they told you that they are sorry...."
Really? So what...
I think and feel that in most of the cases people just
want to avoid arguing, being held responsible...
It's what we call in German "Freifahrtsschein" - so a free ticket.

If someone is truly expressing sorrow, I honor it.
I honor the courage to admit, to take full responsibility for whatever
someone did.
As well as I take full responsibility for all my actions and as well -
or even more importantly for my reactions.

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                    May you all be blessed, happy and healthy.